Hope & Healing
Counseling Services
Specializing in Anxiety, Depression, Relationship and Trauma Therapy
Anxiety
Occasional anxiety is a normal part of life. Many people worry about things such as health, money, or family problems. But anxiety disorders involve more than temporary worry or fear. For people with an anxiety disorder, the anxiety does not go away and can get worse over time. The symptoms can interfere with daily activities such as job performance, schoolwork, and relationships.
There are several types of anxiety disorders, including generalized anxiety disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety disorder, and various phobia-related disorders. Anxiety disorders are generally treated with psychotherapy, medication, or both. Stress management techniques, such as exercise, mindfulness, and meditation, also can reduce anxiety symptoms and enhance the effects of psychotherapy. You can learn more about how these techniques benefit your treatment by talking with a mental health professional.
Depression
Depression is a common but serious mood disorder. It causes symptoms that affect how you feel, think, and handle daily activities, such as sleeping, eating, or working.
If you have been experiencing some of the following signs and symptoms most of the day, nearly every day, for at least two weeks, you may be suffering from depression:
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Persistent sad, anxious, or “empty” mood
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Feelings of hopelessness, or pessimism
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Irritability
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Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, or helplessness
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Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities
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Decreased energy or fatigue
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Moving or talking more slowly
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Feeling restless or having trouble sitting still
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Difficulty concentrating, remembering, or making decisions
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Difficulty sleeping, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
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Appetite and/or weight changes
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Thoughts of death or suicide, or suicide attempts
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Aches or pains, headaches, cramps, or digestive problems without a clear physical cause and/or that do not ease even with treatment
Depression, even the most severe cases, can be treated. The earlier that treatment can begin, the more effective it is. Depression is usually treated with medications, psychotherapy or a combination of the two.
Relationships
Healthy relationships involve honesty, trust, respect and open communication between partners and they take effort and compromise from both people. There is no imbalance of power. Partners respect each other's independence, can make their own decisions without fear of retribution or retaliation, and share decisions.
No relationship is perfect, and whether those relationships are between partners, siblings, parents and children, or friendships there are always possibilities for better communication and connection.
Within partnerships, relational trauma can occur as an aftereffect of abuse, neglect, and suffering. Those who are betrayed by people they loved, trusted, or relied on through the experience of domestic violence, addiction or infidelity may encounter enormous mental and behavioral health challenges, as they attempt to forge interpersonal connections and cope with life's many challenges.
Individual counseling can help support you through the journey of building, sustaining, or terminating a relationship. Counseling can also help work through relational trauma and move towards health and wellness.
Children & Teens
Mental health is an important part of overall health for children as well as adults. For many adults who have mental disorders, symptoms were present—but often not recognized or addressed—in childhood and adolescence. For a young person with symptoms of mental concerns, the earlier treatment is started, the more effective it can be. Early treatment can help prevent more severe, lasting problems as a child grows up.
It can be difficult to tell if troubling behavior in a child is just part of growing up or a problem that should be discussed with a mental health professional. But if there are behavioral signs and symptoms that last weeks or months, and if these issues interfere with the child’s daily life at home and at school, or with friends, you should contact a mental health professional.
Young children may benefit from an evaluation and treatment if they:
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Have frequent tantrums or are intensely irritable much of the time
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Often talk about fears or worries
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Complain about frequent stomachaches or headaches with no known medical cause
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Are in constant motion and cannot sit quietly (except when they are watching TV or playing videogames)
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Sleep too much or too little, have frequent nightmares, or seem sleepy during the day
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Are not interested in playing with other children or have difficulty making friends
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Struggle academically or have experienced a recent decline in grades
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Repeat actions or check things repeatedly out of fear that something bad may happen
Older children and adolescents may benefit from an evaluation if they:
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Have lost interest in activities that they used to enjoy
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Have low energy
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Sleep too much or too little, or seem sleepy throughout the day
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Are spending more and more time alone, and avoid social activities with friends or family
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Diet or exercise excessively, or fear gaining weight
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Engage in self-harm behaviors (such as cutting or burning their skin)
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Smoke, drink alcohol, or use drugs
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Engage in risky or destructive behavior alone or with friends
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Have thoughts of suicide
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Have periods of highly elevated energy and activity, and require much less sleep than usual
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Say that they think someone is trying to control their mind or that they hear things that other people cannot hear.
Trauma
A traumatic event is a shocking, scary, or dangerous experience that can affect someone emotionally and physically. Experiences like natural disasters, acts of violence (such as assault, abuse, terrorist attacks, and mass shootings), as well as car crashes and other accidents can all be traumatic.
Responses to trauma can be immediate or delayed, brief or prolonged. Most people have intense responses immediately following, and often for several weeks or months after a traumatic event. These responses can include:
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Feeling anxious, sad, or angry
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Trouble concentrating and sleeping
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Continually thinking about what happened
For most people, these are normal and expected responses and generally lessen with time.
In some cases, these responses continue for a longer period of time and interfere with everyday life. If they are interfering with daily life or are not getting better over time, it is important to seek professional help. Some signs that an individual may need help include:
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Worrying a lot or feeling very anxious, sad, or fearful
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Crying often
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Having trouble thinking clearly
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Having frightening thoughts or flashbacks, reliving the experience
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Feeling angry, resentful, or irritable
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Having nightmares or difficulty sleeping
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Avoiding places or people that bring back disturbing memories and responses.
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Becoming isolated from family and friends
Children and teens can have different reactions to trauma than those of adults. Symptoms sometimes seen in very young children (less than six years old) can include:
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Wetting the bed after having learned to use the toilet
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Forgetting how to or being unable to talk, regressive behaviors
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Acting out the scary event during playtime
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Being unusually clingy with a parent or other adult
Older children and teens are more likely to show symptoms similar to those seen in adults. They may also develop disruptive, disrespectful, or destructive behaviors.
EMDR
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy is an extensively researched, effective psychotherapy method proven to help people recover from trauma and other distressing life experiences, including PTSD, anxiety, depression, and panic disorders.
EMDR therapy does not require talking in detail about the distressing issue or completing homework between sessions. EMDR therapy, rather than focusing on changing the emotions, thoughts, or behaviors resulting from the distressing issue, allows the brain to resume its natural healing process. EMDR therapy is designed to resolve unprocessed traumatic memories in the brain. For many clients, EMDR therapy can be completed in fewer sessions than other psychotherapies.
After the therapist and client agree that EMDR therapy is a good fit, the client will work through the eight phases of EMDR therapy with their therapist. Attention will be given to a negative image, belief, emotion, and body sensation related to this event, and then to a positive belief that would indicate the issue was resolved.
A typical EMDR therapy session lasts from 60-90 minutes. EMDR therapy may be used within a standard talking therapy, as an adjunctive therapy with a separate therapist, or as a treatment all by itself.